Mindset Archives - Blowing It

Annoyance Or Disdain For That Which You Want To Achieve. Avoiding Blowing #246

You Can Not Hold The Opposing Views Of Wanting To Achieve Something. And Then At The Same Time Have An Annoyance Or Disdain For That Same Thing. We may not know we do it. You have to take close examination of yourself to truly see it. But every time we struggle in an area, there,…

Sunday Sadness, Sunday Blues. Avoiding Blowing It #245.

Many Of Us Are Often Unpleasantly Hit By The Notion Of The Impending Work Week Ahead And Sunday Sadness Creeps In. This is a fascinating phenomenon and it happens to a lot of people. Society is structured in such a way that our routines over time signify Monday as the beginning of the week. Back…

Shoulding On People. Avoiding Blowing It #242

Stop Shoulding On Yourself And Everyone Around You And Just Do The Should. I am very guilty of this. Many times through out my writing I suggest what people should do. We should all over others but mostly we should all over ourselves. It happens far too much. Hell this article is a should of…

Hiding Our Flaws. Avoiding Blowing It #238.

Say It, Show It, Love It. Never Hide From Your Flaws. They Make You Uniquely You. Trying to be perfect all the time is an unnecessary stress that causes anxiety. It’s a mental health issue. How wonderful would it be if we were all a little more excepting of ourselves, flaws and all? If you…

Not Putting Your Best Foot Forward. Avoiding Failure #237.

If You’re Going To Do Something Take Pride In That Effort And Put Your Best Foot Forward. Over the weekend there was a heavyweight championship fight. It was a rematch of two fighters that had fought before. And in that first fight the heavy favorite was upset by the major underdog. Naturally there would be…

Not Taking Into Account Everyone Is Different. Avoiding Failure #235

Everyone Is Different In So Many Ways We Need To Avoid The One Size Fits All Solutions. Everyone is different. Different mental wiring, different body compositions, complexions, biome, genetic make up. No two people are exactly alike. So why do we try to solve problems like everyone is the same? Self Help The self help…

Justifiable Inaction. Avoiding Failure #234

A Lack Of Actions Assisted By Excuses. Avoid Justifiable Inaction. Essentially it’s just us making excuses to not do something. Absence of action can never truly be justified. Accountability will override justifiable inaction every time. Easy is making excuses not to do something. I could not for the life of me find anything to write…

Elevated Stress Levels. Avoiding Failure #233.

When Tempers Increase And Stress Levels Rise. That’s The Time To Become The Calm. Decrease And Defuse Rather Than Elevate With It. Breathe deep for this will being a trying exercise of patience. But breath work can be the strongest weapon against the rise of stress. Sometimes the hardest thing in a escalated field of…

Unwillingness To Humble Yourself In Life’s Defeats. Avoiding Failure #232.

When Life Knocks You Down, Humble Yourself. Than Get Back Either Stronger Or In A Different Capacity. You could say Michael Jordan would never humble himself. He was the consummate champion. It would take off his winning edge. Sure that’s true when your the best. But he had to humble himself when he played baseball….

Passive Action. Avoiding Failure #231.

People Want Passive Income, But Income Takes Action To Generate. And Passive Action Is An Oxymoron. Two words that fundamentally do not go together are passive action. Some things definitely take more action than others. But no matter what you do you have to put in work consistently. While there are definitely examples of work…